A marriage before sex is not such a great idea. It is like going to a car lot and purchasing a car without test driving it. Just because the car is new does not mean it will automatically live up to the buyer’s expectation once they sit behind the steering wheel and start pressing the gas. An incident this week proves why sex before marriage is the best policy.
A Nigerian woman filed for divorce from her husband because she couldn’t handle the size of his penis, according to Nigerian media reports.
Aisha Dannupawa, a housewife and mother of three, asked a Sharia court to dissolve her one-week marriage to Ali Maizinari in Nigeria’s Zamfara State due to his large member. She told the court she had married Maizinari after her first marriage failed.
As part of tradition before settling in her husband’s home, the bride was invited to move into his parents’ house. It was when they first had sex that she claimed the trauma began.
“When he came, we had sex but the experience was a nightmare. Instead of enjoying the sex, it turned out to be something else because his penis was too big,” she told the court.
After their first unsuccessful romp, she took medication given to her by her mother.
“I told my mother the experience but she told me to endure and that with time, I will be able to cope. She then gave me some drugs,’’ she said to Nigerian media.
According to Dannupawa, the couple had sex again but it was “too much to bear” and they concluded that no drug could help the sexual process or their marriage.
The well-endowed husband did not deny the accusation. He told the court he was willing to dissolve the union if his dowry and money spent during the courtship was paid back.